SELF-CENTERED/ LOVE/ CARE! ❤

 

By most of the people around us or even we too are living in a taboo or more like a disbelief that being self-centered which can actually be synonymous with the terms like self love/care is bad. It makes us a bad person if we acquire this basic necessity in us. Primarily, the truth is -

"IT IS OKAY OR IT IS GOOD TO BE SELF CARING/ LOVING/ CENTERED". 
Nobody can understand what a person suffers inside him/her every moment. It is just the care we show for others we do have it for our own too. So how come it is bad to take care of your own? It is obvious that every good thing is criticised by everyone. This too is and will be (like forever). When they don't understand this they actually try us to prove a bad person and emotionless.

Sometimes what we need is just ourselves only but we don't realise that. But if we all try keeping a track then, it is hard to analyse or remember the last time we actually had a "ME TIME" in our lives. The reason being that we are so engrossed in our work and daily life that we forget to stop and look after ourselves! Its always like when we read about these things or hear this from someone then we realise that yes! we lack this very important thing in our lives, but what happens the very next moment is that we all return to our very own  basic rat race of our lives. Slowly as the time passes by we again realise that we didn't schedule any me time in our daily planner, and the guilt drives in but now with many excuses that just show up just to make us feel a little bit less guilty. But is it okay to procastinate yourself? Does it even bother to anyone else in this entire world if we actually take care of us or not? The clear answer is NO! No, it doesn't because its us who actually doesn't make effoerts to pamper ourselves and don't give the care it needs , it is us who take everything for granted. But is it really okay?

Some of us will say that we make our best efforts to make this work but it just doesn't. Do you ever thought that how will it be like if you forget to eat, breathe, or your heart skips the beat again and again! Will you be alive? No, right! Exactly there the point lies, everything works if we want it too work and things do take time but gradually everything falls in place. 

The lifestyle we are living is very busy and stressfull but taking a leave for a moment won't throw us out of this big and never ending rat race! Make a will today and the path itself will be built on its own maybe sooner or later. It is important for us to be with ourselves because we too deserve our own attention, affection, care, scolding, advice and most importantly just US! Ask yourself what you want and just give that thing to yourself, you will feel the difference. Because YOU, matters the most!

THANK YOU!